Everyone knows that person who is
perpetually late. And when you’re relying on that
co-worker to show up for an important meeting or to tend to
an urgent task, his or her tardiness can be frustrating.
“It’s important to try to understand what’s going
on,” says UMKC professor Lee G. Bolman. “Are there
factors in the person’s life that are making a difference?
… Is there something about the job or me, if I’m the
boss?” There could be.
Chronic lateness can be one indicator of the tardy
individual’s dissatisfaction with his or her job,
according to Bolman. Although a less common reason, this
behavior can also be a method of playing tit for tat with a
supervisor. “In some cases, if I’m mad at the boss,
showing up late can also be a subtle way of communicating
‘up yours!’ in effect and letting the boss know
‘you’re not totally in control of my life.’”
The first step in alleviating the situation is to ask the
employee what’s causing his or her being late. Then deal
with his or her dissatisfaction or the life situation
causing the delay. Doing so may reveal a situation that the
company might be able to help solve, such as providing
childcare ideas for a single parent.
An individual’s background can affect punctuality as
well. “Some families, if you’re supposed to be there at
5, you’re expected to be there at 5,” says Bolman.
“Other families, 5 means 5-ish, plus or minus 10 minutes
or plus or minus 30 minutes.
“For some people, I think they do have a different
sense about how critical it really is that [they] get to an
event exactly on the dot,” he says.
Differences in personality such as being disorganized or
even overly optimistic make running behind more likely.
“People who are very successful tend to be overly
optimistic about the time it takes to accomplish things or
how many things they can actually fit into a day,” says
Marilyn O’Hearne, master certified coach and owner of MOh!,
an executive coaching service. This optimism leads to a lack
of cushion time between appointments and an overscheduled
calendar.
As an executive coach, O’Hearne encourages these
latecomers to find focus through prioritizing—evaluating
values, goals, vision and purpose to discover what is most
important and scheduling around that. “It’s getting
realistic and padding some time in the
calendar—under-scheduling instead of over-scheduling,”
she says. Add to that another motivator: O’Hearne
challenges them to arrive 15 minutes early.
Unclear corporate disciplinary policies also may be an
agent to tardiness. White-collar positions usually aren’t
subject to set-in-stone rules with consequences for a
morning delay, according to Bolman, especially for salaried
employees who stay late to make up the time. Bolman suggests
that flextime may be a better response than insisting on a
specific start time for the entire company.
For most chronic latecomers, O’Hearne attributes a
general lack of awareness. “A lot of people don’t
realize how much they are doing it and what the effect is on
other people,” she says. “I don’t think it’s
malintentioned—that they’re doing it to flaunt they are
more powerful or everyone needs to wait on them. I just
don’t think they have the awareness.”
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